Am I a Wise Man?
Proverbs 1:7
Once more we see God’s value system is
different from the average person’s. He describes “wisdom”
not as mere human intelligence or being brainy like we do, but as respecting
Him first and paying attention to the profitable counsel from His Word. So, a ‘wise
man’ leads a lifestyle of moral integrity or honesty, humility, and agreement/obedience
to God.
Regarding
biblical wisdom, “fear” again is not referring
to being terrified of punishment. Instead, this is a deep, reverent awe
and healthy respect for God. It includes recognizing that He is the
Creator, the ultimate authority, and the judge of all that is right. By
starting here, we acknowledge our own limitations and align ourselves with the fundamental
moral order of God.
The
essence of true knowledge is fearing God. Apart from Him a person is ignorant
of spiritual things (Rom. 1:22; Eph. 4:18; 1 Peter 1:14).[1]
If you wonder if you are ‘wise’, God
offer clear statements to help us reflect on. These primary verses provide
specific ways to measure our wisdom.
What Can I
Learn from the Book of Proverbs?
God views
a wise man as someone who pursues humility, seeks counsel, and reveres Him. He
is characterized by emotional control, diligence, careful speech, and a
lifelong desire to learn.
Basic qualities
of a wise man in Proverbs include:
1. His Foundation
is in God: The Bible states, "The
fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge" (Proverbs 1:7).
A wise man trusts in God rather than relying solely on his own understanding.
If a man wants to be wise, the place to begin is
in reverencing God and in trusting and obeying Him. What is more reasonable
than that the creature should trust his Creator? On the other hand, what is
more illogical than for a man to reject God’s Word and to live by his own
hunches? The wise thing to do is to repent of one’s sins, trust Jesus Christ as
Lord and Savior, and then live for Him wholeheartedly and devotedly.[2]
- The Character Statement: “Who
is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a
good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.” (James 3:13)
- The Worldly Wisdom Evaluation: “Let
no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this
world, let him become a fool, that he may be wise.” (1 Corinthians
3:18)
True wisdom is fundamentally rooted in
the “fear of the LORD” (a deep reverence and
respect for God) and applying His lessons to everyday experiences.
- He Listens to Counsel with a
Desire to Learn: A wise man is teachable, actively increasing
his learning and seeking guidance, whereas a fool despises instruction and
thinks he needs no advice.
- The Teachability Examination: “The
way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto
counsel is wise.” (Proverbs 12:15)
- The Humility Acid Test: “Be
not wise in thine own eyes: fear the Lord, and depart from evil.”
(Proverbs 3:7)
Unlike a
fool who thinks he is always right, a wise man listens to advice, accepts
correction, and learns from his mistakes.
3. He
Controls His Temper: Rather than being reckless or quick-tempered, he
stays calm, restrains his anger, and overlooks insults.
o God very
directly says control your temper in Proverbs 16:32: “He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and
he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.”
- James 1:19:
Advises being "swift to hear, slow to
speak, slow to wrath".
o Ephesians
4:26:
Advises dealing with anger immediately rather than letting it fester.
In this better … than proverb (see comments on
12:9) having patience and a controlled temper
is honored above being a soldier. In a land where safety depended on might and
skill in warfare, this statement may seem surprising. Yet conquering oneself
(cf. 14:17, 29; 25:28; 29:11) is of greater virtue than conquering a city.[3]
- He Uses Restrained and Helpful
Speech: A truly wise person speaks carefully and
uses few words. His words are known to bring healing rather than acting
rashly like a sword.
- The Speech Appraisal: “In
the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his
lips is wise.” (Proverbs 10:19)
- Proverbs 29:11, 14:29,
& 15:1: Focus on wisdom over folly, urging a calm
spirit and using soft words to calm conflicts.
- Proverbs 25:28:
Compares lack of self-control to a broken-down city.
The more we talk, the greater is
the probability of saying something wrong. Compulsive talkers should beware!
The lust for incessant conversation often leads to exaggeration, breaking of
confidences, and associated sins. Trying to top someone else’s joke often
mushrooms into off-color stories.
The man who exercises
self-control in his speech is wise.
He saves himself from embarrassment, apologies, and outright sin.
10:20 What a
good man says is a reflection of what he is. Because his character is sterling,
so is his speech. Since the heart
(or mind) of the wicked man is not
worthwhile, neither is the conversation that flows from it.[4]
A wise
person restrains their speech, avoiding gossip, anger, and hasty words in favor
of gracious and truthful communication.
5. He is a Diligent
and Productive Worker:
God provides strong motivation for a productive
work ethic, urging believers to work with diligence and integrity as an act of
service to Him. God highlights the importance of hard work, offering wisdom for
both daily tasks and career focus.
o Proverbs
14:23: Emphasizes that hard work brings profit, while idle talk
brings poverty.
o Proverbs
22:29: Notes that diligent workers gain recognition and distinction.
o Proverbs
13:4: Highlights how the diligent will be fulfilled, while the lazy
will lack.
o Proverbs
10:4: Connects a diligent hand with prosperity.
God heartily endorses excellence, purpose,
diligence, reward, skill,
and integrity for employers and employees. Colossians 3:23, encourages working
heartily for the Lord rather than men. Ecclesiastes 9:10, instructs doing all
tasks with your full strength. 1 Corinthians 10:31, advises doing everything
for the glory of God.
6. He Looks
Ahead with Discretion: He exercises discretion and caution,
anticipating danger and turning away from evil, while a fool is reckless and
arrogant. ‘Discretion’ is the ability to use godly wisdom to protect yourself
from harm, avoid foolish mistakes, and respond calmly to others.
o Proverbs
2:11, “Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding
shall keep thee:” This verse highlights that exercising good
judgment acts as a guardrail against dangerous paths.
o Proverbs
19:11, “The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and
it is his glory to overlook a transgression.” Self-control and knowing when
to let something go reflect true character.
o Psalm
112:5, “A good man sheweth favour, and lendeth: he will
guide his affairs with discretion.” In daily matters the righteous
manage their responsibilities wisely.
Wisdom
brings discernment. A wise man is vigilant, avoids dangerous paths, and flees
from temptation.
7. He Keeps
Good Company: Whoever walks with wise men becomes wise, much
like iron sharpens iron.
o Proverbs
13:20, “He that walketh with wise men
shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.” Those with
whom you surround yourself will shape your own character and future. Walking
with the wise leads to wisdom, while associating with fools (the biblically
unwise or rebellious) leads to ruin.
o 1
Corinthians 15:33, “Be not deceived:
evil communications corrupt good manners.” God warning
us against being misled. Spending time with negative influences, unwholesome
speech, or those who disregard God’s values will ultimately ruin your own good
character and habits.
One way
to become wise is to associate with wise people, including companions and
teachers. Conversely to associate with fools
brings problems.[5]
What Can I
Learn from the Lord Jesus?
1.
The chief quality of a “wise
man” is obedience to God through adherence to his word.
2.
Jesus illustrates this concept on a real-world level
referring to the wise and foolish builders (Matthew
7:24-27).
3.
Jesus showed:
·
The Wise Man:
Represents anyone who hears Jesus' teachings and puts them into
practice. Because their life is built on a solid foundation of obedience,
they can withstand the storms and trials of life.
·
The Foolish Man: Hears
the teachings of Christ but ignores them. When life gets difficult, their house
(life) collapses because it lacks the strong foundation of adherence.
In
conclusion Jesus presented the two options open to His listeners. They were now
responsible for what they had heard and must make a choice. They could build on
one of two foundations. One foundation
was likened to a big rock and the
other to sand. The foundation
determines the ability of a structure to withstand the elements (rain and winds). The rock
foundation represented the Lord Himself and the truths He had been presenting,
especially the truth concerning inner transformation. The sand spoke of
Pharisaic righteousness which the people knew and on which many were basing
their hopes. In storms the first would give stability; the second would result
in destruction. Thus hearing and heeding Jesus’ words is wise; one who does not is foolish.
Only two courses of action are possible—two kinds of roads and gates (Matt.
7:13–14), two kinds of trees and fruit (vv. 15–20), two kinds of foundations
and builders (vv. 24–27).[6]
Conclusion:
It is
wise to walk in King Solomon’s wisdom. Clearly, King Solomon is widely
regarded as the wisest man ever. When God offered him anything he desired,
Solomon asked for wisdom to govern God’s people well (1 Kings 3). Such wisdom
became legendary. However, the Bible also teaches that even Solomon’s adherence
faltered later in life when he strayed from God’s guidelines—reminding us that godly
wisdom requires lifelong, active faithfulness and continuous application. So,
where are you concerning God’s wisdom?
[1]
Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures,
ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985),
908.
[2]
William MacDonald, Believer’s Bible
Commentary: Old and New Testaments, ed. Arthur Farstad
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1995), 792.
[3]
Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures,
ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985),
942.
[4]
William MacDonald, Believer’s Bible
Commentary: Old and New Testaments, ed. Arthur Farstad
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1995), 815.
[5]
Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures,
ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985),
934.
[6]
Louis A. Barbieri Jr., “Matthew,” in The
Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F.
Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 2 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 34–36.


