Failing to Prioritize God
GEN. 13:8-13
SUBJECT: Carnality/Emotional Orientation
THEME: the Believer persisting in carnality ignoring the leadership of our Lord is destined for spiritual failure.
RELEVANCE: So many people rely on their feelings, thoughts, intuition, families, and experiences far more than God, His Spirit, or Word for guidance and decisions. No doubt we all want to be spiritually successful like Abraham and avoid the miserable catastrophes of Lot’s failures! Consider the elements that make spiritual failure; they must be avoided to be successful in fulfilling God’s plan for our lives!
INTRODUCTION:
Lot was a failure because of his carnality…he remained a feeling dominated person and never became a Spirit and Word obedient person!
Erroneous standards, priorities, and decisions are the third major factor in Lot’s wrong choice to move closer to Sodom and his ultimate failure in life.
THE EVIDENCE OF BAD PRIORITIES AND DECISIONS
Gen 13:11-13, Then Lot chose him all the plain of Jordan; and Lot journeyed east: and they separated themselves the one from the other. 12, Abram dwelled in the land of Canaan, and Lot dwelled in the cities of the plain, and pitched his tent toward Sodom. 13, But the men of Sodom were wicked and sinners before the LORD exceedingly.
A Believer who is weak in his devotions, worldly in his desires, will also be wrong in his decisions. Lot chose all the plain of Jordan and separated himself from his godly uncle Abraham. Before long he had his tent pitched toward Sodom and the Bible tells us that the men of Sodom were exceedingly wicked sinners before the LORD!
a)
Lot’s
Decision Was Wrong Because of His Enduring Carnality!
Again, to be “carnal” or “carnally minded” refers our thoughts, desires, and behaviors governed by our fallen human nature and worldly appetites rather than by the Holy Spirit. Enduring or remaining in a state of carnality carries severe spiritual dangers!
1. Carnality Directly Leads to Spiritual Death. The most immediate and severe consequence of unyielding carnality is total spiritual separation from the life of God. Romans 8:6, For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
Two different ways of living and thinking are contrasted
here:
·
The Carnal Mind (Death): If our life and thoughts are centered purely on
worldly appetites, self-gratification, or sin, it results in spiritual death. As
believers, it is cut off from fellowship with God. Not sonship, but
fellowship or close spiritual communion with God.
· The Spiritual Mind (Life and Peace): If a believer allows the Holy Spirit to direct their heart and mind—focusing on Christ, Scripture, and God’s grace—it leads to spiritual vitality, freedom, and deep inner peace. Clearly, Lot was carnally minded in this decision!
2. Carnality Places us in Direct Opposition to God. A carnal mindset creates a heart that is hostile toward God and cannot submit to His law. Romans 8:7, Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
Paul contrasts life motivated by the flesh (leading to
spiritual death and separation) with life lived in the Spirit (bringing peace,
life, and security in Christ).
·
Hostility Towards God: When our
lifestyle or mindset centered purely on the flesh, it is fundamentally opposed
to God’s character, will, and law.
· Moral/Spiritual Inability: Left to itself, the unrenewed human mind cannot naturally obey or please God. Transformation requires the intervention and regenerating power of the Holy Spirit.
The carnal mind is not subject to the law of God. There are countless examples of this enmity and contrariness in people in the Scriptures. Think of Abraham marrying Hagar; Lot choosing Sodom; Moses smiting the Egyptian; Joshua making a deal with the Gibeonites; Saul sparing king Agage and the Amalekite Cattle; Solomon’s political marriages; Jonah fleeing to Tarshish instead of going to Nineveh as God said to. All of these illustrate this principle of rebellion that characterize the “carnal mind.” What we Christians want is the mind of Christ, that is yielding our minds to the Spirit’s control. —Unknown
3. Carnality Makes It Impossible to Please God. Operating from a state of carnality means one cannot please God. Romans 8:8, So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
·
“In the flesh”: Refers to an unregenerate person—someone whose life is
governed and controlled by their sinful, self-reliant human nature rather than
the guidance of God’s Spirit. It is not a reference to simply having a physical
human body, but to a spiritual state of living independently from God—living in
rebellion.
· “Cannot please God”: A person living entirely under the sway of the sinful nature lacks the spiritual life, faith, and alignment with God’s will needed to offer anything acceptable to Him. Human effort, morality, or religion detached from God cannot bridge this serious gorge!
William Evans stated, “The entire nature of man, mentally, morally, spiritually, physically, is sadly affected by sin. The understanding is darkened (Eph. 4:18; 1 Cor. 2:14); the heart is deceitful and wicked (Jer. 17:9,10); the mind and conscience are defiled (Gen. 6:5; Titus 1:15); the flesh and spirit are defiled (2Cor. 7:5); the Will is enfeebled (Rom. 7:18; and we are utterly destitute of any Godlike qualities which meet the requirements of God’s holiness (Rom. 7:18).”
Believers are rescued from this state not by their own fleshly performance, but through faith in Jesus Christ and the life-giving presence of the Holy Spirit (Rom 8:1–9).
4. Carnality Breeds Strife, Envy, and Division. Enduring carnality disrupts church unity, leading individuals to act like worldly people rather than spiritual believers. 1 Corinthians 3:3, For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?
They were “babes in Christ” and feed on spiritual “milk”
instead of “meat” (deep doctrine) because they were not mature enough to handle
it (1 Corinthians 3:1–2).
·
“Ye are yet carnal”: They were still controlled or heavily influenced by the “flesh”
(carnal). They are saved believers, but they live according to human,
sinful impulses rather than yielding to the Holy Spirit.
·
“Envying, and strife, and divisions”: We have concrete
proof of their carnality. Being jealous of one another’s spiritual gifts,
arguing over favorite church leaders (such as Paul or Apollos), and splitting
into hostile factions—is carnality. Lot through conflict separated from holy influences
in his life.
· “Walk as men”: Is to conduct your daily lifestyle acting like ‘mere humans’ behaving no differently than people of the unregenerate world who do not know God, rather than acting like transformed followers of Christ.
Human Christian leaders are just servants! We must stop boasting in men, leaders, or officials and recognize that God is the one who brings spiritual growth (1 Cor. 3:4-8). We are to unite around the central figure of the Lord!
It is not difficult to determine a believer's spiritual maturity, or immaturity, if you discover what kind of “diet” he enjoys. The immature believer knows little about the present ministry of Christ in heaven. He knows the facts about our Lord's life and ministry on earth, but not the truths about His present ministry in heaven. He lives on "Bible stories" and not Bible doctrines. He has no understanding of 1 Cor 2:6-7. –W. W. Wiesrbe
5. Carnality Reaps Corruption and God’s Judgment. Persisting in the flesh yields a destructive harvest rather than eternal life. The principle of carnality reaping corruption is most famously articulated in Galatians 6:7–8: “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”
To “sow to the flesh” is carnality—it is living according to selfish, sensual, or sinful desires rather than God’s will. Such a lifestyle leads to “corruption” (decay, ruin, moral and spiritual degradation) and finally God’s judgment.
b)
Lot’s Decision Was Wrong Because of the Wickedness of Sodom
Gen. 13:13, But the men of Sodom were wicked and sinners before the LORD exceedingly.
Among many other sins, Sodom WAS A CESSPOOL OF HOMOSEXUALITY! Rom.1:24-28 gives us God’s current perspective on this type of sin! The key is redemption through Jesus Christ (1 Cor. 6:9-11)! Not hating the person but certainly rejecting this carnal lifestyle. Consider verse 13:13 carefully:
·
“But the men of Sodom...”: Interrupts the narrative about Abram and Lot to expose
the true moral condition of the place Lot chose to approach.
·
“...were wicked and sinners...”: They lived in deep moral corruption, characterized by
pride, violence, and flagrant social decay.
·
“...before the LORD...”: Their sins were not hidden from God; they occurred in
direct, open defiance of His presence and authority.
· “...exceedingly”: Their degeneracy had reached an extreme, unrestrained level.
After Abram and Lot split, Lot chose the fertile Jordan Valley ‘toward Sodom’ because it looked rich and prosperous, prioritizing physical comfort over spiritual safety. A dramatic warning to us all that living close to severe corruption is never neutral. Pitching a tent near Sodom eventually led Lot to dwell inside the city itself (Genesis 19), exposing his family and himself to its destructive culture.
c)
Lot’s Decision Was Wrong Because of God’s Wrath Against
Sodom
Gen 13:10, And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered every where, before the LORD destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, even as the garden of the LORD, like the land of Egypt, as thou comest unto Zoar.
The Spiritual Conditions were Right for God’s Judgment to Fall! That is the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah…God’s judgment was a direct response to a deeply rooted and unrepented evil.
Gen
19:24-25, Then
the LORD rained upon Sodom and upon
Gomorrah brimstone and fire from the LORD out of heaven; 25,
And he overthrew those cities,
and all the plain, and all the inhabitants of the cities, and that which grew
upon the ground.
Gen 19:27-29, And Abraham gat up early in the morning to the place where he stood before the LORD: 28, And he looked toward Sodom and Gomorrah, and toward all the land of the plain, and beheld, and, lo, the smoke of the country went up as the smoke of a furnace. 29, And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that....
This is not evidence for God accepting sin, greed, manipulation, selfishness, or homosexuality as legitimate lifestyles; He condemns them all as gross sin!
Critics and theological readers question the fairness of destroying an entire city—which would have included children, infants, and potentially marginalized or coerced individuals—rather than singling out guilty actors. —Randy Duncan
Biblical historians and scholars estimate—based on the time Lot lived in the region—that Sodom was morally corrupt or ungodly for at least 15 to 25 years, though the text itself does not mark a formal countdown for their repentance.—Bible Tools
In Genesis 18:23–32, Abraham intercedes for the city, asking if God would spare it if fifty, forty, thirty, twenty, or even ten righteous people could be found. God agrees to spare the entire city for the sake of just ten righteous individuals. However, this society had fallen into total, unrepentant corruption without even a tiny core of righteousness.—Got Questions
2 Peter 2:6, warns that this destruction serves as a moral lesson to those who would live ungodly in the future to demonstrate that persistent and unchecked wickedness has severe consequences.
4. WHAT IS THE POINT?
Now, the
point is … if we are weak in our devotions, worldly in our desires then
we will certainly be wrong in our decisions! As a result, we will
consistently miss the WILL OF GOD FOR OUR LIVES!
Galatians 5:16, This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
·
Primary Instruction
to Us: “Walk
in the Spirit”— living, acting, and being
guided day-by-day under the influence and power of the Holy Spirit.
·
The
Promise/Consequence to Take to Heart: “ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh” — yielding to the Spirit naturally breaks the power and
completion of sinful or selfish desires.
· Immediately Focus: In Galatians 5:17–18, the sinful nature (“the flesh”) and the Spirit oppose one another, and that those who are led by the Spirit are not under the bondage of the law.
It
does not matter how sincerely you and I try to do what is right; we will continue
to fail in spiritual things until we are ready to allow God by His Spirt and
Word to order our lives! Direct fellowship with God and treating relationship
with Him as the highest treasure is anchored in several key scriptures:
- Matthew 6:21: “For where your treasure is, there will your heart be
also.” — What you value most claims your time, devotion, and
affection.
- Matthew 6:19–20: “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth... But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven...” — Shifting focus from temporary things to eternal communion with God. Beloved, we must treasure fellowship with the Most High God above all else!
Our Prayer is, “Lord Lead Me by
Your Precious Word!” “May God’s statements be my plan, my compass,
my guide, my leader to spiritual success, and my restrainer from all
evil!”
Ps
119:133, Order my steps in thy word:
and let
not any iniquity have dominion over me.
Ps 37:23-24, The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way. 24, Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the LORD upholdeth him with his hand.
Are
you persisting in carnality as opposed to growing in the Lord? Who leads your
life? Who or what influences most of your decisions? How often do you study the
Bible? How regularly do you attend church? In what specifically have you
disobeyed God? What or who are your eyes focused on? Isn’t it time to build an ‘alter’
to the Most High God?


