Friday, November 13, 2026

Should Women Be Pastors?

 



“Should Women Be Pastors?”

Spiritual Leadership in the Church Series

1 Tim 2:12

THEME: the church is to conduct its services with order. This includes women teaching ministries, but not assuming the role of a pastor of the congregation.  

RELEVANCE: A desire to see God honored and glorified through a church's ministries will settle most debates that are rooted in self-centered approaches to the Bible. Women and pastoral ministry are no different! Church is where Christ is exalted and not people seeking power and positions to highlight themselves. 

INTRODUCTION:

“Let all things be done decently and in order” (1 Cor. 14:40) is a basic principle for the conduct of the ministry of the church. 

Women pastors represent modern feminist beliefs, advocating for gender equality within a church. Their roles challenge scriptural basis that prescribes church leadership to qualified men. These women typically believe the Bible supports women’s church leadership, underlining ministry as non-gender exact.

However, the Bible is explicitly clear on this subject beyond any legitimate doubt.

MESSAGE:

Show Submission Through Respecting Authority (1 Tim. 2:12–13).

Once more we have a restriction that reinforces consistency and proper order for the ladies in the church. Immediately, these provisions safeguard the best interest of the women in the congregation and still apply to us today. God is always cognizant of correct order in the church and respecting His authority.

            1.  Women Are Not to Pastor, But They Are to Teach. (1Tim. 2:12) This is Not a Ban on Teaching ministries. While we have a restriction, it does not prohibit women from teaching altogether but rather addresses specific roles within the church—pastoral leadership.

A. Women Are Permitted to Teach.

o   Older women being experienced and generally more seasoned should teach the younger women (Titus 2:3–5).

o   Timothy was taught at home by his mother and grandmother (2 Tim. 1:5; 3:15).

o   Paul did not forbid the women to pray or to prophesy in the Corinthian Church (1Cor. 11:1-5).  Prophesying is not quite the same as our "preaching" or "expounding the Word." A person with the gift of prophecy proclaimed God's message, in this case to another woman, when the Spirit gave it.

B. But in Their Teaching Ministry, They Must Not “Lord It Over” Men.

o   There is nothing wrong with a godly woman instructing a man in private (Acts 18:24–28).

o   While the New Testament does not permit women pastors (1 Tim 3:2), women in the early church who had the gift of prophecy were allowed to exercise it with other women.

o   They were also permitted to pray in the public meetings of the women (1Cor. 11:1-5). 

C. She Must Not Assume Authority in the Church and Try To Take The Place of a Man.

o   Women were not permitted to usurp authority over the man (1 Tim 2:11-15) or to judge the messages of the other male prophets (1 Cor 14:27-35). If they had any questions, they were to ask their husbands (or other men) outside of the church meeting.

o   She should exercise “quietness” and help keep order in the church.

D.  The Woman’s Role in the Church is Largely One of Submission.

o   1 Cor. 11:3, But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

1. Submission is a Key to Harmony in Relationships.

 Submission is a crucial element in the smooth functioning of any business, government, or family. God ordained submission in certain relationships to prevent chaos.

It is essential to understand that submission is not surrender, withdrawal, or apathy. It does not mean inferiority, because God created all people in his image, and all have equal value.

Submission is even a mutual commitment and cooperation.

2. Biblical Submission is Based on Valuing One Another as Equal Persons.

God calls for submission among equals. He did not make the man superior; he made a way for the man and woman to work together.

Jesus Christ, although equal with God the Father, submitted to him to carry out the plan for salvation. Likewise, although equal to man under God, the wife should submit to her husband for the sake of their marriage and family.

Submission between equals is submission by choice, not by force. We serve God in these relationships by willingly submitting to others in our church, to our spouses, and to our government leaders.

3. Biblical Submission is Choosing to Obey and Glorify God First in our Relationships.

God created lines of authority for his created world to function smoothly.

Although there must be lines of authority, even in marriage, there should not be lines of superiority. God created men and women with unique and complementary characteristics. One sex is not better than the other!

We must not let the issue of authority and submission become a wedge to destroy oneness in marriage. Instead, we should use our unique gifts to strengthen our marriages and to glorify God.

E. What About When the Leadership Does Not Deserve Respect?

1.Those In Authority Are Worthy of Respect (because of the position). 

o   1 Samuel 24:5-6, And it came to pass afterward, that David's heart smote him, because he had cut off Saul's skirt. [6] And he said unto his men, The Lord forbid that I should do this thing unto my master, the Lord's anointed, to stretch forth mine hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the Lord.

o   David had great respect for Saul, although Saul was trying to kill him.

o   Although Saul was sinning and rebelling against God, David still respected the position he held as God’s anointed king.

o   David knew he would one day be king, and he also knew it was not right to strike down the man God had placed on the throne.

o   If he assassinated Saul, he would be setting a precedent for his own opponents to remove him some day.

o   Rom 13:1-7 teaches that God has placed the government and its leaders in power.

o   We may not know why, but, like David, we are to respect the positions and roles of those to whom God has given authority.

o   There is one exception, however. Because God is our highest authority, we should not allow a leader to pressure us to violate God's law or requirements.

2. Those Who Are Faithful to God Are Clearly Worthy of Respect.

o   Acts 5:17-18, Then the high priest rose up, and all they that were with him, (which is the sect of the Sadducees,) and were filled with indignation, [18] And laid their hands on the apostles, and put them in the common prison.  (See also Heb. 13:7, 17)

o   The religious leaders were jealous -- Peter and the apostles were already commanding more respect than they had ever received.

o   The difference, however, was that the religious leaders demanded respect and reverence for themselves; the apostles’ goal was to bring respect and reverence to God.

o   The apostles were respected not because they demanded it, but because they deserved it.

F.  How Can a Person Earn the Respect of Others?

                                    1. We Must Become People of Integrity to Win The Respect Of Others.

o   “The dictionary defines integrity as “the state of being complete, unified.” When I have integrity, my words and my deeds match up. I am who I am, no matter where I am or who I am with.

Sadly integrity is a vanishing commodity today. Personal standards are crumbling in a world that has taken to hot pursuit of personal pleasure and short cuts to success.”  ---Maxwell, J. C. 

                                    2. People Will Follow Those They Can Trust; Those Who Are Real.

o   “The more credible you are the more confidence people place in you, thereby allowing you the privilege of influencing their lives. The less credible you are, the less confidence people place in you and the more quickly you lose your position of leadership.” ---Maxwell, J. C.  

o   “Trust is the foundation of leadership. To build trust, a leader must exemplify these qualities: competence, connection, and character. People will forgive occasional mistakes based on ability, especially if they can see that you’re still growing as a leader. But they won’t trust someone who has slips in character. In that area, even occasional lapses are lethal. All effective leaders know this truth.” ---Maxwell, J. C.

CONCLUSION:
The modern feminist movement is embarrassingly riddled with stark contradictions and faulty logic. There is no wonder these adherents do not respect the Bible or anything else that challenges their lust for complete equality. Unfortunately, most women pastors embrace feminist theology seeking to reinterpret the Bible to promote their idea of gender equality. Furthermore, secular feminists advocate for the ordination of women, impacting many denominations. This really is not about a Bible mandate or exclusion, it is more a matter of accommodating feminist theology to raise women's rights to all places of power. A faithful handing of the Bible will settle this issue for anyone really focused on pleasing God and not themselves. 


Monday, November 9, 2026

The Hold of Sin is Ugly


The Hold of Sin is Ugly

The idea ‘the hold of sin is ugly’ informs us the effects and consequences of sin are deeply unattractive and detrimental. If we engage in sinful behavior, it will certainly lead to negative outcomes, both morally and emotionally, creating a sense of unpleasantness in our life and character. This is not popular, but it still is true. God often emphasizes the destructive nature of sin and its impact on us and our relationships. He is often vilified for honestly warning us of sin’s consequences! Remember, sin mercilessly separates us from a sense of peace or divine connection, reinforcing this condition of the ugliness associated with sin (1Jn. 1:8-10). I am so thankful God can set us free through the blood of Jesus Christ.

 


Sunday, November 8, 2026

Ending the Conversation

 



Ending the Conversation

Galatians 5:16-17, 25


Boundaries and conflicts require leadership from the Holy Spirit. To “walk in the Spirit” is to live under the direct control, guidance, and empowerment of the Holy Spirit instead of returning to our sinful fallen desires. 

Living and walking in the Spirit then involves relying on the power and guidance of the Holy Spirit to shape our daily thoughts, choices, actions, and conversations instead of giving in to self-centered, prideful, or sinful individual motives. Now let’s apply this to spiritual boundaries and conversational conflicts.

Lesson:

The Spirit Encourages Us to End the Conversation with Grace

The Bible emphasizes wisdom, peace, and restraint when closing out or de-escalating a challenging discussion. These thoughts are urged to end a difficult conversation gracefully:

1.    Be Spiritual Enough to Walk Away from Strife

a.    Proverbs 17:14 – "The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with."

b.    Proverbs 26:20 – "Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth."

c.     2 Timothy 2:23 – "But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes."

It is totally okay to pause the conversation before things get ugly; you do not have to win every battle to finally win the war! We respect God by ending the conversation before it gets messy.

In fact, recognizing that a discussion is turning destructive and choosing to step away is one of the healthiest communication skills you can practice.

When emotions peak, the brain transitions into a "fight-or-flight" survival state. At this point, productive dialogue becomes impossible because neither person is truly listening—the focus shifts to self-defense or winning. Taking a tactical pause isn't a sign of weakness or avoidance; it is a conscious choice to protect the relationship and your own peace of mind. (Confronting Communication Strategies)

2.   Master Exercising Silence and Restraint as Normal

a.    Proverbs 10:19 – "In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise."

b.    Proverbs 17:28 – "Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding."

One of the wisest things we can do during conflict is hold our peace on personal preferences, political positions, or opinions we cherish personally. While it is correct to speak up for godly guidelines, be careful not to use God to give sanction to a personal practice you treasure. Also remember, constant agreement can lead to lack of relational progress, even boredom, whereas respectful differences can keep interactions vigorous and growing.

3.   Pursue Peace as far as You are Concerned

a.    Romans 12:18 – "If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men."

b.    Romans 14:19 – "Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another."

As much as you can and as often as it depends on you follow and pursue ‘peace’ with the other party. Cherish the relationship even when you ‘agree to disagree.’ Prioritize love, emotional safety, and mutual respect over the need to win an argument. Winning an argument is meaningless if it damages trust or makes the other person feel attacked. You can disagree with someone and still love them deeply.

Conclusion:

This all demands serious emotional discipline, maturity, and considerable self-control. The Scriptures repeatedly instructs us to “walk in the Spirit” to avoid expressing carnal abusive language, situational control, violent strategies, and relational manipulations.

Remember, living in the Spirit is our spiritual position or new birth. When we from a repentant heart place our faith in Christ, the Holy Spirit came to dwell inside us, giving us a new spiritual life. 

Walking in the Spirit encompasses our daily practices and movements. We are to keep in step with Him—continually adjusting our pace, decisions, and behavior to follow His lead. He often prescribes these behaviors in the Word.


MaxEvangel's Promise

MaxEvangel's Promise
We will Always Honor Christ-centered Perspectives!