Showing posts with label Ingratitude. Show all posts
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Friday, April 10, 2020

Fostering the Attitude of Gratitude



1Thess. 5:18
 
SUBJECT: Cultivating the Christian Attitude of Thankfulness

THEME: foster the spiritual attitude of Gratitude by giving thanks to the Lord and expressing appreciation for those who service our well-being. 

INTRODUCTION:
As I observed previously, an attitude is “a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person's behavior.” We may have a passion for a sport like basketball, dislike for a certain politician like Speaker Ms. Nancy Pelosi and negativity toward life in general; each of these are an example of an attitude. 
Furthermore, attitudes can include up to three components: cognitive (thinking), emotional (feeling), and behavioral. Consider this example: Rachel believes that smoking is unhealthy, feels disgusted when people smoke around her, and avoids being in situations where people smoke. This agrees with the view of attitude as “the position or posture assumed by the body in connection with an action, feeling, mood, etc.” The question before us is, what do you think, feel and how do you live out gratitude?  

Our behavior reflects our attitudes (thoughts and feelings) toward the Lord! Godly changes can begin with honest applications of biblical truth to our attitudes (beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors). Transformation for us by the Word and grace of God starts deep within. In addition, the correct attitudes must be cultivated on purpose!  

As a review we are studying three attitudes towards our heavenly Father; the attitudes are joy, trust (prayer), and thanks (1 Thess. 5:16-18). Our joy, which strengthens us, is in Him and from Him. Our prayers, which are an exercise of trust, are directed to Him as our Provider, and finally we offer our sincerest and most heartfelt thanks to our heavenly Father-God! Let’s explore the attitude of gratitude today.

FOSTER AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE!  
1Thes 5:18, In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

Thesis: We can foster the spiritual attitude of Gratitude by giving thanks to the Lord!

I.               Gratitude is Giving God Thanks and Praise. The Requirement is to Offer Appreciation to God—to “give thanks
A.    What does “Give” Indicate?
                                                  1.     The word “give” indicates an imperative—we are being directed and commanded to show God appreciation.
                                                  2.     The word “give” (a verb) also indicates action is required. It is through giving God appreciation that we practice gratitude and cultivate the attitude of gratitude. This quality of appreciation is not automatic for us; we tend to be too self-centered. Gratitude must be deliberately cultivated and fostered in our hearts and through specific practices.
B.    What does “Thanks” Mean?
                                                  1.     Gratitude is the natural expression of thanks to God in response to blessings, privileges, protection, or love. Thankfulness. Has not the Lord been very good to us? 
                                                  2.     Thankfulness is to be conscious of benefits received. God has done great things for us, and we are fully aware of them and express thanks to him.
C.    What is the Opposite of Gratitude?
                                                  1.     It is ungrateful attitudes (thoughts, feelings, and behaviors) that ignore God’s majesty, glory, and works—Rejecting our purpose and opportunities to glorify Him (Rom. 1:21-25).
                                                  2.     It is attitudes of expecting, requiring, complaining and demanding more with respect to God and people. This is failing to reflect on or value what others do for us; it is only valuing what they want or need while using people to satisfy themselves. As immature believers they treat God much the same way and are frustrated with Him when God does not acquiesce to their demands or expectations. 
                                                  3.     It is attitudes of taking God and people and their contributions for granted…such behaviors are more prevalent because of ingratitude.
                                                  4.     It is attitudes of entitlement and arrogance swelling and becoming more disruptive and destructive to relationships and society. We feel ourselves entitled like we deserve God’s highest honors, privileges and blessings. We frequently find ourselves angry with the Lord and even complaining because we are convinced He is not treating us in a manner becoming of someone of our stature. We are no different than the nine cleansed lepers who failed to return to thank the Lord Jesus and give Him praise for His exceptional kindnesses to us (Luke 17:11-19). How important it is that we intentionally develop an attitude of gratitude!
                                                  5.     It is attitudes of discouragement and hopelessness prevailing because we are not balanced with the full spectrum of spiritual realities and circumstances. We are only focusing on the bad; we have dismissed the reality of hope in the Lord.




II.            Gratitude should be Expressed in all Circumstances. The Situation is always Appropriate to being Thankful to God—“in every thing
A.    In Every Thing Really does Include all Situations and Circumstances
                                                  1.     Psalm 34:1, I will bless the Lord at all times: His praise shall continually be in my mouth.[1]
                                                  2.     Ephesians 5:20, Giving [generously from the heart] thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ[2]
B.    Repeatedly, the Lord States how Appropriate Gratitude is in Various Situations
                                                  1.     Philippians 4:6, Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.[3]
                                                  2.     Colossians 3:17, And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.[4]
C.    The Requirement is not to be Thankful for Everything, but to be Thankful to God in Everything—whatever the Situation!
                                                  1.     There are awful developments and sinful actions we could never ever be thankful for, but we can be thankful unto God still (Eph. 5:20). We are not thankful for this worldwide killer COVID-19 virus (88,630 deaths), or the 16M jobs lost in the US thus far. We cannot be thankful for over 50 million abortions in the USA since 1973, or a terrorist who blows up himself among innocent bystanders. We are not thankful for crazy people who launch a gun assault on faithful worshipers in a church or among committed Jews gathering at their synagogue. We are not thankful for 2.3K plus black-on-black homicides annually in the US. God can be thanked in spite of these sinful occurrences and injustices because He still offers hope, change, forgiveness, cleansing, and transformation!
                                                  2.     Idolatry, Blasphemy, Murder, Adultery, Theft, and Lying we have no requirement to be thankful for these sins! God never calls upon us to excuse or dismiss sin!
                                                  3.     The Preacher’s Commentary says, I’m not in agreement with the interpretation of this phrase that calls us to praise and thank God for literally everything that happens. I can’t imagine God being thankful for everything that happens. Things that happen because of the selfishness or sinfulness of ourselves or others need to be changed, not accepted. I prefer to thank God for being God and to focus on Him rather than on the things that happen.[5]
                                                  4.     Hebrews 13:15, By him [Jesus Christ] therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name. [6]
D.    A High View of God’s Sovereignty is Necessary to be Thankful in all Situations—God’s administration and providence provides the bases for such continuing gratitude.
                                                  1.     This is knowing that God is in Absolute Control of all things
                                                  2.     This is knowing that God is Actively Working to Achieve Good
                                                  3.     This is full confidence in God’s relentless Pursuit of His Glory
                                                  4.     Romans 8:28, And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.[7]
                                                  5.     Jeremiah 29:11-14, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. 12 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. 13 And tye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. 14 And I will be found of you, saith the Lord: and I will turn away your captivity, and I will gather you from all the nations, and from all the places whither I have driven you, saith the Lord; and I will bring you again into the place whence I caused you to be carried away captive.[8]
                                                  6.     Dr. W. MacDonald says in his commentary, God is working all things together for good to those who love Him, to those who are called according to His purpose. It may not always seem so! Sometimes when we are suffering heartbreak, tragedy, disappointment, frustration, and bereavement, we wonder what good can come out of it. But the following verse gives the answer: whatever God permits to come into our lives is designed to conform us to the image of His Son. When we see this, it takes the question mark out of our prayers. Our lives are not controlled by impersonal forces such as chance, luck, or fate, but by our wonderful, personal Lord, who is “too loving to be unkind and too wise to err.”[9]
E.     The Great Patriarch Job Illustrates the way of Gratitude in the Worst of Situations—He experienced the deaths of all his adult children and complete financial ruin in one day. Yet, Job did not hesitate to bless and thank God for who he is!
                                                  1.     Then Job arose, and rent his mantle, and shaved his head, and fell down upon the ground, and worshipped, 21 And said, Naked came I out of my mother’s womb, And naked shall I return thither: The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; Blessed be the name of the Lord. 22 In all this Job sinned not, nor charged God foolishly.[10]
                                                  2.     Psalm 113:2, Blessed be the name of the Lord From this time forth and for evermore.[11]
III.         Gratitude is God’s Plan for His Children. The Reasoning is God Prescribes Gratitude for all Believers—“for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus
A.    God wills that we become people of Gratitude
B.    God knows it is very Healthy for us to Recognize the Good He is doing and the Hope He Creates in this World
C.    Christ Jesus affords the context for becoming people of Gratitude
                                                  1.     He is the ultimate Person of Gratitude—He modeled and exemplified thankfulness
                                                  2.     He provides the Power and Resources to Foster spiritual Gratitude
D.    Our worship will be Transformed and Fueled by Frequent Reflections on God’s Activities, Attention, and Administrations.
E.     God is most Interested in our Well-being and Gratitude can Transform the Climate in our Souls and the Condition of our Relationships

CONCLUSION:
Beloved, how often do we overlook His blessings? How many times do we forget to say, “Thank You, Lord?” How frequently do we require more and expect more, but have so little desire to utter the words, “Thank you” to our God? 

The Lord Jesus was hurt to see only one cleansed leper return…it disturbed him deeply. He even verbalized his pain in Luke 17:17-18. Please note carefully what transpired, in Luke 17:14b-19, And it came to pass, that, as they went, they were cleansed. 15 And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice glorified God, 16 And fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks: and he was a Samaritan. 17 And Jesus answering said, Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine? 18 There are not found that returned to give glory to God, save this stranger. 19 And he said unto him, Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole.[12]
Are we among those who at least occasionally fall on our faces giving God thanks and glory? Certainly, we have much to be grateful for!

Our lives will be significantly transformed if we took these basic instructions seriously making them an integral part of our daily walk. Every Christian’s life should be distinguished by gratitude. Depression, anxiety, and ingratitude are not Christian at all. While life presents many serious tensions for us all, we can still choose to be appreciative to the Lord.

We will become living commercials of God’s craftsmanship commending Him to everyone we touch. I truly believe more people would be influenced and drawn to Christ as Savior through our lifestyle of appreciation. Make the decision to live with a thankful heart and praise on our lips. Gratitude is a choice!





[1] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Ps 34:1). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[2] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Eph 5:20). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[3] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Php 4:6). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[4] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Col 3:17). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[5] Demarest, G. W., & Ogilvie, L. J. (1984). 1, 2 Thessalonians / 1, 2 Timothy / Titus (Vol. 32, p. 99). Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson Inc.
[6] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Heb 13:15). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[7] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Ro 8:28). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[8] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Je 29:11–14). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[9] MacDonald, W. (1995). Believer’s Bible Commentary: Old and New Testaments. (A. Farstad, Ed.) (p. 1712). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.
[10] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Job 1:20–22). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[11] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Ps 113:2). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
[12] The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2009). (Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version., Lk 17:14–19). Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.

Monday, July 2, 2018

Attitudes: JOY



1Thess. 5:16-18

SUBJECT: Healthy Christian Attitudes

THEME: As Christians our attitudes, motives, and behaviors are vitally important. The most important is our attitude towards God as we anticipate our Lord’s return.

Technically an attitude is “a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person's behavior.” Attitude has also been defined as “the position or posture assumed by the body in connection with an action, feeling, mood, etc.” Basically, our attitude towards something is the way we think and feel about it, especially when this shows in the way we behave.

Our behavior reflects our attitudes toward the Lord! Positive changes start with solid applications of biblical truth to our beliefs, attitudes and behaviors. As Believers we need to be changed and transformed by the Word and Grace of God from the inside out. In addition, our attitudes can be stimulated for good! The reality that Christ is coming encourages us to cultivate healthy attitudes and behaviors! If the Christian really believes Christ is coming for us in the Rapture, it will radically change our attitudes and lifestyle.

I remember going to Air Force basis training at Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, Texas.  We had been there for about two days at the time and we were told to prepare for our very first “Shakedown Inspections” by the Mid-Level Training Supervisors, a Master Sargent, and he had an entire team of loud obnoxious Training Instructors to assist him. 

Well the purpose of this inspection was to discover any illegal substances, fire arms, other weapons, and any other unauthorized materials (pictures of family, friends, girlfriend ect). Of course, this 'once-over' proved to be embarrassing, intimidating, and nerve wracking to say the least. The training instructors barked orders at us to prepare for the inspection by opening our personal belongings and wall lockers. We really didn’t know what they wanted to see, and we had no clue as to how to “pass” the inspection. Though we were oblivious of the standards or criteria, we still made every effort possible to prepare for the coming of the “Training Supervisor.” The energy in both bays was off the charts, and the fear in the rooms was so thick you could not have cut it with a chainsaw! We had never met this mid-level supervisor, and we desperately wanted to pass this inspection without being singled out and publicly humiliated for a failure. In other words since we knew full well that he was coming, we made some real adjustments to prepare to meet him.  


So, should it be with the life of the Christian who truly anticipates our Lord’s return. His coming should have a stimulating impact on our attitudes and behavior!

WHAT SHOULD BE OUR ATTITUDES TOWARD OUR HEAVENLY FATHER? What attitudes should we desire and cultivate? (1 Thess. 5:16-18)
The first three attitudes that follow seem to relate particularly to the Lord God, our Heavenly Father. The attitudes are joy, trust (prayer), and thanks and all three relate directly to our relationship with God. Our joy is in Him and from Him. Our prayers are directed to Him as our Provider, and we offer our sincerest and most heartfelt thanks to God!

CULTIVATE AN ATTITUDE OF JOY  
1Thes 5:16, Rejoice evermore. 

Rejoicing always and in everything is intentionally developing the attitude of joy! Rejoicing refers to a positive human condition that can be either a feeling or action. As an action, rejoicing entails enjoying a state of happiness and well-being—to rejoice, to express gladness. Yes, rejoicing is an action and not merely a feeling. Believers are instructed in the Word to "rejoice in the Lord" (Phil. 3:1), we are further encouraged to proceed "rejoicing in hope" (Rom. 12:12), and "Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice" (Phil. 4:4). Repeatedly, the Lord prescribes the development of an attitude of joy through practicing joyful expressions. Beloved, we must take initiative to experience joy. Our part is to obey, and God will work by His Spirit deep within the Christian's spirit and heart to help us realize real joy. God's people should be distinguished by this incredible quality of joyfulness. Clearly, this will look different in each life influenced by our temperament and personality. Never-the-less we all should be marked by joyful expressions and form of exuberance authentic to our unique temperament.

God impresses you and me to rejoice "evermore." It means to show joy always, at all times, and on all occasions. For the duration of time and with reference to a series of occasions, God calls upon us to rejoice. Joy can be the constant experience of the Believer, even in the most adverse circumstances. While this is not true of happiness it is possible with spiritual joy. Certainly, there will be times to weep, times of sadness, and periods of dark feelings, but the overall character of the believer should be joyfulness. The following three reasons expand upon why we can keep on rejoicing regardless!

First, Rejoice because Christ is Our Source of Joy. We can rejoice always and, in all things, because the source of our joy is a constant unchanging and all-sufficient origin. It is the "joy of the Lord" that strengthens us and empowers holy resilience. We can continually rejoice because He always supplies all we need as we need it and whatever we need. Joy comes from a supernatural source—God himself and it is supernaturally sustained in our experiences. Transcendental and mystical are reasonable descriptions of the divine source; joy is made available through our faith and dependence upon the Lord for it. As certainly as the Lord resources our sun and a trillion billion stars in millions of galaxies He can resource you and me. You can rejoice in this!

Secondly, Rejoice because Christ is Our Subject of Joy. We can perceive what is involved in rejoicing evermore by focusing on the Lord. My heart has been rescued from downcast feelings and thoughts by refocusing my thoughts on the Lord Jesus. Thinking about Him stirs joy deep within. Reflecting on His compassion, mercy, and love gives rise to comfort, assurance, and security in the deepest centers of my soul. Meditating on His patience, wisdom, and courage awakens persistence, confidence, and peace in my heart—again I am helped! Beloved, concentrate your thoughts on Calvary, the empty tomb, your resurrected Savior, the ascended Christ, the enthroned and powerful Lord, our all-glorious Advocate, our compassionate High Priest, and the coming King of kings and Lord of lords! Remember Jesus saved you, forgave you, brought you into the family of God and gave you his blessed Holy Spirit. Heaven and forever with the Lord is your eternal reality. Beloved, shout for joy! Let it rise from the depth of your ever-deepening conviction that you have many reasons to rejoice in the Lord. O’ the impact of Christ on our inner life is reason to rejoice evermore!

Thirdly, Rejoice because Christ is Our Sovereign—He is wonderfully in control of my circumstances! No one else and nothing else occupies the throne of the entire universe! God alone rules forever on high; He is supremely in control. Our role is to trust this truth and be glad in the Lord God. Notice how David and Paul say this, "Be glad in the LORD, and rejoice, ye righteous: and shout for joy, all ye that are upright in heart" (Ps 32:11). Why not join David and shout for joy? Why??? You and I are not subject to chance, lucky stars, fate, or horoscopes. God is managing our affairs with love, grace, wisdom, power, and this is far more meaningful than impersonal forces randomly impacting our lives! Since your confidence and trust is indeed in the Lord "rejoice" and "shout for joy"! "But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee." (Ps 5:11) Express your love for the Lord Jesus by rejoicing in Him. Envelop yourself in His defense strategies first and foremost; rejoice in the impeccable security Jehovah affords. Once again the Apostle Paul said it perfectly, "Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice." (Phil 4:4). 

When we keep our minds and hearts upon the truth that Christ controls our circumstances, then we can’t help but rejoice. With the Lord on the throne, everything will ultimately be alright. He does all things well; He rules with wisdom, power, and love. He is our Sovereign, Source and Subject of Joy; therefore, keep rejoicing as you go!



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