Romans 14:1-12
SUBJECT:
CHRISTMAS HOLIDAY OBSERVANCE
THEME:
today
I want to identify the boundaries of Christian liberty and the proper exercise
of Christian love regarding Christmas holiday observances.
In this study series, I hope to articulate the approach a Christian should take regarding holiday observances. Secondly, and in full disclosure, I aim to steer you clear of the two major pitfalls of license and legalism regarding holidays. That is we cannot allow nor forbid all aspects of any holiday observance as a standard practice for all believers. Some aspects may be morally acceptable while others are concretely violations of biblical truth. In those facets that are truly neutral, we must afford liberty to others. Thirdly, we hope to encourage you to live with a voluntary self-restraint regarding gray area issues that may offend others or hinder our efforts of reaching and helping people. We do not want our freedom in Christ to be regarded as evil or needlessly offensive. All of these are worthwhile goals; therefore, exploring this subject, though it came be volatile, is still a worthwhile time investment.
The way a person observes the Christmas holiday can be a matter of controversy and unnecessary hard feelings or resentment. For example, someone may inquire, "Can I drink eggnog at the office Christmas party?" Another may ask, "Why erect a Christmas Tree? It has nothing to do with the birth of Christ...." Yet someone else may wonder if participation in any part of Christmas observances are pleasing to God...especially since its origin is pagan. Well, the Apostle Paul in Romans 14 gives us valuable guidance and relational principles in the areas of questionable things and practices. He shares powerful guidelines to enable believers to disagree on nonessentials (gray area issues) while maintaining love and unity in the churches and Christian homes.
In this study series, I hope to articulate the approach a Christian should take regarding holiday observances. Secondly, and in full disclosure, I aim to steer you clear of the two major pitfalls of license and legalism regarding holidays. That is we cannot allow nor forbid all aspects of any holiday observance as a standard practice for all believers. Some aspects may be morally acceptable while others are concretely violations of biblical truth. In those facets that are truly neutral, we must afford liberty to others. Thirdly, we hope to encourage you to live with a voluntary self-restraint regarding gray area issues that may offend others or hinder our efforts of reaching and helping people. We do not want our freedom in Christ to be regarded as evil or needlessly offensive. All of these are worthwhile goals; therefore, exploring this subject, though it came be volatile, is still a worthwhile time investment.
The way a person observes the Christmas holiday can be a matter of controversy and unnecessary hard feelings or resentment. For example, someone may inquire, "Can I drink eggnog at the office Christmas party?" Another may ask, "Why erect a Christmas Tree? It has nothing to do with the birth of Christ...." Yet someone else may wonder if participation in any part of Christmas observances are pleasing to God...especially since its origin is pagan. Well, the Apostle Paul in Romans 14 gives us valuable guidance and relational principles in the areas of questionable things and practices. He shares powerful guidelines to enable believers to disagree on nonessentials (gray area issues) while maintaining love and unity in the churches and Christian homes.
With
as much as Fundamental Christians agree upon, it's quite amazing what we can fight about, and even split churches over. Unfortunately, it has been this way with Christianity from its inception.
And in those early days, God gave His people a way to handle these matters so
they would not become divisive. His plan? Liberating
love. This solid plan is delineated for us all in Romans
14:1–15:13 (also 1 Cor. 8-10), which describes
two groups who are at odds with each other over two areas of concern. So let's
keep open minds, laying aside our differences so we can hear what God has to
say to us from these passages.
HOW
DO WE KNOW CHRISTMAS HOLIDAY OBSERVANCES ARE “GRAY AREA ISSUES”?
Simply
stated we know that Christmas is a Gray Area Issue Because the Bible Does Not
Address the Subject At All; therefore, the Christian Can Exercise Liberty in the
Matter.
In
other words, God does not forbid nor command us to observe the holiday. We
cannot require another to honor this day, nor can we forbid another’s
observance. The choice is up to you whether or not you participate or refrain.
It is a matter of personal persuasion. Note what the Apostle Paul actually says in Romans 14:5-6,
One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind. [6] He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it. He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.
It is
up to the individual believer as to whether or not she or he will celebrate the
holiday of Christmas. But let every believer be “fully
persuaded in his own mind” that what
he or she does is completely pleasing to God.
The choice is yours but it must be made in faith! Note that Romans 14:23, requires, “And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth
not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.”
While there are a number of things associated with the observance of the Christmas Holiday that are biblically wrong like lying to children about Santa Claus and the godless parties promoting drugs and alcohol, there are many traditions that are healthy. Time reflecting on the actual meaning of Christ's birth, giving thanks to God for the "gift" of His only begotten Son, and worship services devoted to celebrating the incarnation of God are all worthwhile. Any Christian should be able to subscribed to worship emphasizing these truly scriptural realities without any difficulty. However, if a believer objects to Christmas trees, traditional Christmas tales like Rudolf the Rednose Reindeer, and swapping gifts then they are free to do so as a personal matter. We all must be careful to separate the biblical from the traditional in many matters. Each individual needs to be persuaded about these matters of conscious as a matter of faith. We must be watchful against imposing our personal convictions on another person; they must also be free to act according to their own conscious with impunity.
THERE ARE "GRAY
AREAS" THAT ARE NOT EXPRESSLY RIGHT OR WRONG FOR EVERY BELIEVER.
Some may view these as black and white matters while others disagree referring to them as gray areas. Consider these suggestions:
1. Consider Just a Few of the Gray Area Issues of
Our Day.
a. Consider the Issue of Christians in The
Military and Fighting in War.
b. Consider the Issue of Christians Holding Government Offices.
c. Consider the Issue of Christians Attending an Office Christmas Party.
d. Consider the Issue of Christians Playing or Owning a Pool Table.
e. Consider the Issue of Christians Owning a Gun or Advocating for Guns.
f. Consider the Issue of Christians Playing Card Games.
g. Consider the Issue of Christians Working on the Lord’s Day– Sunday.
h. Consider the Issue of Christians Working at Stores that sell Liquor and Tobacco.
h. Consider the Issue of Christians Working at Stores that sell Liquor and Tobacco.
All of these issues have been debated for years with little or no resolution or coherency. My aim here is not to revisit them all individually, but to demonstrate that the subject of observing Christmas is categorized with them. In addition, I merely hope to emphasize that true matters of conscious can be real hot button subjects. They can generate much heated debate and drive deep the wedge of division in a family or church. People tend to be quite passionate about their position; they will vigorously defend their perspective. It seems to me the more deeply one's position is rooted in tradition, the more tenaciously it is held. Christmas observances typically present a vast array of secular traditions and of course teachings deeply rooted in biblical truth. It is a potentially explosive subject when a secularist and a believer address the subject to each other. It is also a challenging portion of discussion when two believers haggle over the significance of the holiday and devotion to biblical emphasis. I am simply contending that the proper balance can be struck if we observe the principles of Christian Liberty. Perhaps we need to visit the subject of "Christian Liberty" to help us understand how to handle all such matters.
2. “Christian Liberty” is Applied to These Areas
of Moral Indifference.
To avoid confusion, please allow me to explore the subject of Christian Liberty so that we all understand what I am actually saying here.
Liberty Means that Believers Are Emancipated
from the Bondage of Satan, the Domination of Sin, Guilt, and the Fear of Death. Christians are entirely free of any obligations to sin and its condemnation. Spiritual union
with Christ, involving the service of Christ, is compatible with perfect
freedom; inasmuch as we are thus restored to the right relationship to God and
brought into harmony with His will (see Matt 11:28-30; James 1:25). The season of bondage and fear of death is over for genuine believers. Note that Hebrews
2:14-15, says, "Forasmuch then as the children
are partakers of flesh and blood, he also himself likewise took part of the same;
that through death he might destroy him that had the power of death, that is,
the devil; [15] And deliver them who
through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage." (see John
8:31-36; Acts 26:17-18; Rom 7:24-25; 8:15; Heb. 2:14-15).
Liberty Means that Christians Are Not under
Obligation to Observe the Distinctly Jewish Regulations in the Bible. Paul says in Galatians 5:1, "Stand fast
therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not
entangled again with the yoke of bondage." We are not required to embrace the Jewish traditional holidays mentioned in the Old and the New Testaments. Christians should insist on liberty concerning such matters of culture, observing holidays, feasts, and ceremonies. All the while we accept the fact that Christianity will look and feel differently in different cultures, but the essential truths and message remain in tact. The result is not a watered down version of Christianity, but real Christianity in another cultural context. I certainly am not encouraging perversions of our Faith, but simply recognizing that Christianity is designed by God to be indigenous, lucid and relevant on many levels regardless of the people group. The Liberty we have through Christ tolerates such nuances as the Faith is expressed through a certain cultural setting. It will differ slightly in other social/ethnic situations without any violation of essential or fundamental truths.
You see, circumcision, Animal Sacrifices,
with the whole body of ceremonial requirements
essential to the chosen nation, Israel, during the period that was preparatory to the
gospel, are set aside under the gospel. These features of religion were annulled
by the incoming of the new dispensation in Christ. They were not in keeping with the
dignity and inward liberty of redeemed souls, our new moral elevation and
illumination, or our relationship as children of God. (see John 4:20-24; Acts 15:1-29; Gal. 2:1;
5:1-6; Heb. 8:10,13). Hebrews 8:13, says, "In that he saith, A new covenant, he hath made the first
old. Now that which decayeth and waxeth
old is ready to vanish away." The Old Covenant requirements were satisfied through Christ's death, burial, and resurrection. They are accomplished on the behalf of every believer, thus they are nullified. These elements were not transferred to other people groups, but many Jewish converts still continued to observe these traditions for a while.
The Phrase, Christian Liberty, Also Refers to
the Privilege of Christians to Regulate Their Lives as Individuals with Respect
to Matters That Are Morally Indifferent.
The NT instructions upon this point were developed for the most part on
account of the attempt to impose Jewish regulations upon converts of
Christianity. Again Christians are not obligated to observe these regulations or holy days. We must also understand the principles set forth by Paul have a much broader
application and are still of great importance to us today (see Rom 13; 14:14; 1 Cor. 7:8;
also Scriptures referred to above). He repeatedly advocated for Christian Liberty concerning days and diets.
With
Respect to Such Things that Are Not Commanded or Forbidden in the Word of God,
Christian Liberty May Be Exercised and Should Be Allowed. Actions are not to be pronounced sinful that are not
sinful. Different does not mean wrong or a perversion of the Faith. Often there is more than one way to obey a biblical requirement. Any scriptural injunction can be executed in a number of ways; multiple strategies could be employed by any congregation even. Nonessentials are not to be elevated to the place of essential virtues. Some things concerning our Faith are vital and necessary while others are not. Essentials (relative to Christmas) are fundamental teachings like the nature of God, the nature of Christ's birth, salvation by grace, propitiation through one ultimate Sacrifice, the inspiration and veracity of Scripture, and the significance of Christ's birth. Nonessentials are things like Christmas trees, a white Christmas (snow), sleigh rides, turkey dinners, Santa Claus (a lie), gift swapping, gingerbread cookies, and chestnuts roasting on an open fire. Each Christian is free to choose for themselves before their Lord on these matters that are truly neutral. Regarding the essentials, every believer should advocate for these truths, but all the rest is not worth bickering over except to demonstrate they are not fundamental to biblical Christianity.
Proper
Room must Be Left for the Exercise of Individual Judgment or of Enlightened
Christian Conscience. That is correct, in these gray area matters it is permissible to allow your conscious to be your guide. Individual preference is appropriate as long as it is exercise with loving consideration for how our actions will impact others.
But remember, this Liberty with Respect to Things Indifferent Is Not Absolute; There are
Limitations. Its exercise is under the
limitations of the principles of self-preservation,
of expediency, of duty, and of love. Healthy concessions should be made for the sake of "the weak," though
care should be taken not to make them in a way, or to such an extent, as
to perpetuate their weakness or to promote superstition. If the former is not
done "the weak" are needlessly injured. If the latter is omitted the
principle of evangelical liberty is violated, Christians are reduced to
un-Christian slavery, and the progress of Christ's kingdom is obstructed. Always keep the principles of expediency and edification in mind as you grapple with these matters. The Apostle Paul says in 1 Cor.
10:23, "All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not." Is it expedient for the cause of Christ? Does it edify my brother or sister in Christ? These are good questions to grapple with.
MANY BIBLE SUBJECTS ARE BINDING WHILE OTHERS ARE
GOVERNED BY GENERAL PRINCIPLES.
1. Some Activities We Know Are Wrong, Because
the Bible Clearly Condemns Them.
For instance we do not have to wonder or worry about whether drug usage, immorality, stealing or lying are wrong. When we are faced with these temptations we do not have to stop and pray about whether or not we should
indulge. We do not need to analyze the
situation to see if we should participate; no, we just simply believe God and
refuse. God already said NO about
immorality, substance abuse, lying, and stealing.
2. Other Activities We Know Are Right, Because
the Bible Clearly Commands Them.
Things like faithful church attendance, tithing one’s income, evangelizing the lost, living holy, being honest and beyond reproach, Bible study, and
encouraging others with the Scriptures are clearly the expressed will of God as
prescribed in the Bible.
But
when it comes to areas that are not clearly defined in Scripture, we find
ourselves needing some other kind of guidance. Paul gave Christian Liberty principles
for this guidance. He explains how believers could disagree on nonessentials
and still maintain unity in the church. He gave his readers three important
admonitions. We will consider two of them in this series.
3.
Some Matters Can Be Settled Based on General Biblical Principles.
The
following are general principles that can be applied to many of these gray area
matters. Consider these as questions for personal examination:
a. Will what I’m about to do raise
questions about my motives? (1 Thes. 5:22; 1 Cor. 9:12, 18)
b. Will what I do have a positive effect
on others for the Lord? (1 Cor. 6:12; 10:23)
c.
Will what I do clearly bring glory to God? (1 Cor. 10:31)
d. Will what I do result in the
salvation of souls? (1 Cor. 10:33)
e. Will what I want to do master or
enslave me? (1 Cor. 6:10)
f. Will what I want to do promote peace
in the fellowship? (Rom. 14:19)
g. Does what I want to do make me feel
uneasy in my conscience? (Rom. 14:23)
Again through this
study I hope to clarify what position a Christian should take on such holiday
observances. Secondly, I wish to steer
you clear of the two major pitfalls of license and legalism regarding the holidays. Thirdly, I want to encourage
you to live with a voluntary self-restraint regarding gray issues that may
offend others or hinder our efforts of reaching and helping people. Remember in all matters Christian Love is applicable and prescribed by our Heavenly Father.
Yes, the way a person observes the Christmas holiday can be a matter of controversy
and unnecessary hard feelings or even resentment. It may appear as hypocrisy to observe it or to refrain from observing it. The Apostle Paul gives us helpful guidance and relational
principles in the areas of questionable things and practices. Study carefully the passages mentioned above in their original context. Then do the profitable work of working out how these principles apply to us today. You will be gloriously enriched!
Yes, believers can disagree on nonessentials (gray area
issues) and still maintain love and unity in the churches and Christian homes. If
we understand and faithfully apply these principles we will not find ourselves
tearing up our churches and our homes about things that are neutral before God.
We will also learn to tolerate the different preferences of other believers;
how to govern ourselves when dealing with “gray” issues are necessary relational skills.
As always, I am not advocating the sacrifice
of biblical truth and important principles of the Scriptures, but I am saying that we
should be willing to give up our personal rights in order to win souls to Christ
and build-up other saints in Christian love. It is not about what I want, but what is edifying, expedient, or others centered. I realize some folks want to make every subject an absolute matter with universal application. We all function a little bit better when we know the clearly defined boundaries.... In matters of conscious the boundary is the individual's choice or preference under the authority of Christ the Lord. That is the standard Beloved, for us all.