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Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Courage to Hope Again




Discouragement can be described as a considerable loss of confidence or enthusiasm. That sense that our assurance has run from us like mice from a sinking ship, and we just don’t seem to have the energy to engage yet another round of challenges. The rapid fire of painful experiences has left us with a feeling or belief that we cannot rely on God and His Word as we previously thought we could. Our firm trust in the Lord has been violently displaced by burning doubts and we feel wounded…desperately injured…too paralyzed to do anything. Continuing to hope in the Lord is suddenly not high on our list of priorities….
A series of difficult challenges can cause us to slump into a dispirited mental/emotional state where we lose hope…. A darkness grips us… and we feel completely at it mercy…frightfully powerless. Any substantial anticipations of positive outcomes have entirely escaped us. In part, it is that state of becoming predominately dishearten…losing the determination to continue. At times…even suicide seems plausible. We wonder why we should hope again, bother anymore, or even try.
In such times, we need courage to remain true to God, to live out His plan for us, and to hope again. We need hope to traverse this hard journey through our own souls. Beloved, this is especially important when we encounter discouragement, disappointment, or despair in the aftermath of painful adversities. During such testing conditions, we need courage like a drowning man needs a life vest. Our lives depend on it. It is courage that enables us to dare to trust and hope again.... To overcome the fear of being let down…frustrated again...disappointed again…we need “good courage.”

HAVE COURAGE TO RECOGNIZE GOD’S POWER, PRINCIPLE AND PRESENCE
Courage to Hope and to Believe God
Joshua 1:9, Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.

I love the question God asked His new national leader, Joshua, “Have not I commanded thee?” This inquiry provokes God’s leader to look away from the disheartening death of Moses and the incredible challenge of leading God’s people to God Himself. It is a call to recognize the Power of the God of Moses and the God of Israel. Beloved all hope rest in a fundamental trust in Him. His great power surpasses all others, and no one can compare or contend with our God. Anything He commands He will fulfil by His mighty power. Such power promotes encouragement in a significant way. Amid discouragements, doubt your doubts and recognize the truth of God and His awesome situation-changing power.
Another key tactic God uses can be described as real and substantial encouragement to overcome the threatening and undermining power of fear and dismay. Here is the principle, though God’s power is peerless, it can be limited in our individual experiences by our fears. Fear can paralyze us when we should be active, and dismay means our hopes have been utterly shattered by our fears. God stems this tide of terrors with this quick warning against the bone-crushing force of hope-stealing horrors. Respect the power of fear in your life, and limit its influence through trusting God regardless.
One more observation from Joshua 1:9, is helpful at this point—God’s Presence. Again, what stirs courage in the heart like the fresh realization that someone with something meaningful to offer is standing with you every mile of the way? This is not merely a highly capable and well-intention friend; this is Jehovah God Himself talking to you and me. Contrary to the unwarranted suspicions of our fickle minds, God NEVER abandons His people when life hurts. He stands with us to encourage, inspire, empower, and sustain us as we dare to hope again. Beloved, against all odds He still…still…still remains with you through it all. In the good days and awful days, He stays close by to supply us with the courage to continue. Note the observation of W. MacDonald,
Three times Joshua is told by the Lord to be strong and very courageous (vv. 6, 7, 9). The size and duration of the task ahead, the pressures of leading such an obstinate people, and the absence of his spiritual mentor, Moses, were perhaps heavy on Joshua’s mind at this time. But the Lord was not calling him without enabling him. There were good reasons for Joshua to be strong: God’s promise (vv. 5, 6), a sure victory; God’s Word (vv. 7, 8), a safe guide; God’s presence (v. 9), a sustaining power.
The wonderful news is the same benefits are available to every precious child of God caught in the grip of their terrors, disappointments, and despairs because of hard circumstances. We are not left to stew in our confusions and discouragements, God is with you and me all the way. Beloved, take this journey in your own soul through disillusionment back to the place of unparalleled confidence in the Lord Jesus Christ. This is where the HOPE is!

DON’T ALLOW THE DARKNESS TO DESTROY YOUR HOPE!
In times of adversity, things can sometimes seem so bleak and so dark that we are on the verge of giving up hope. The darkness may be amplified by the voices of others, the pressure of the scenario, the intense feelings of hopelessness, and the messages we tell ourselves. Together these communicate the wrong messages to us. We must beware!

Resist the Preachers of Gloom and Doom
Job 2:8-9, And he took him a potsherd to scrape himself withal; and he sat down among the ashes.  [9] Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity? curse God, and die. [10] But he said unto her, Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil? In all this did not Job sin with his lips.

Others around us may foretell doom and encourage us to face what they see as inevitable. Job's wife was one such person. After Job was covered with painful boils from the soles of his feet to the crown of his head, she said to him, “Dost thou still retain thine integrity? curse God, and die.” (Job 2:9). This frustrated retort came from a heart that had been crushed by painful developments hyper-compounded and evident fears she was about to finally lose her husband. Her children were dead, their wealth was gone, her husband was very sick, and her hopes were soundly obliterated. All prospects of good have abandoned this suffering soul….
Job wisely responded to her, “Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil?” (v. 10). The Scriptures add this important line: “In all this did not Job sin with his lips.” (v. 10). Jobs was still hanging on to God and what he knew to be true. This is fundamentally how we silence the preachers of gloom and doom. We believe what God disclosed about Himself and refuse false messages from others...including ourselves. Self-talk like, “God does not care,” “There is no point in looking to God,” “Why bother anymore…especially after all you have been through...." "What difference does it make?” Such messages, if tolerated will eat away at your hope and shatter your confidence in God’s promises.  

COURAGEOUSLY CHOOSE TO HOPE IN THE LORD AGAIN
When you are faced with negative circumstances and then negative opinions and comments from others, you need courage to stay positive—to continue to believe that the Lord is with you!  It takes real courage to say and really believe that God is going to intervene in our darkening situation.

    1.  You Must Choose to Hope in the Lord During the Troubles.

A.    Hope and Faith Are Not Automatic Responses in Times of Hardship and Trial.
Beloved, such responses must be deliberately cultivated with every opportunity. Casual efforts or passively gaining or sustaining this perspective will not meet your challenges in a successful manner. Remember God spoke directly to Joshua to strengthen him for the months and years ahead. You and I have the Scriptures to afford God many chances to speak to us deeply, repeatedly, encouragingly, powerfully, and profoundly. While chapter 1 of Joshua is a great place to start, the entire book is an excellent source of hope-building courage!

B.     They Require an Exercise of the Will, Bolstered with Courage.
At times, you must say aloud to yourself, “I know that God has a purpose in this. I know that God will bring me through this. I know that God is a good and loving Father, and He is doing a good and eternal work in my life.”
If no one else speaks hope to you, you need to speak it to yourself. Believe me there are too many Christians out there with a “wet blanket” ministry. They kill every spark of hope that may dare to surface. Avail to yourself specific passages, biblical accounts, and verses that stir you to hope in the Lord God, Jehovah. I also believe faithful Christians should be the most “hope-filled” people on the entire planet. Why not if our hope is centered in the Lord and His Word?

    2.  You Must Recognize the Lord’s Presence as You Face the Troubles Cause by Enemies.
Part of the need for courage also may reside in the fact that…

            A. We have the Need to Withstand the Enemies Who are Moving Against Our Lives. 
In other words, those who are causing your adversity.
Moses realized that would be the case for Joshua and the Israelites, and he said to the Israelites, “Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.” (Deut. 31:6).
It is helpful to know God will not fail us or forsake us as our enemies bare down on us. In addition, having Bible-centered hope does not erase the possibility that things could get worse before they get better.

            B. It Takes Courage to Believe God While Things Get Worse!
It takes courage to continue to believe in God and to have hope in God's power over your enemies while your adversaries are pummeling you into the ground or threatening to do so.
Recall Goliath no doubt found David's claims about the goodness and greatness of God to be ludicrous as he stood in the Valley of Elah and watched a stick of a lad run toward him. But at the end of the day, David had victory in his hand and joy in his heart. (See 1 Sam. 17.)
Ask the Lord to give you courage to continue to believe in Him and in His presence with you as you go through hard-times. Ask Him to renew your hope and faith. I have no doubt He'll honor your request. Psalm 31:23-24, O love the Lord, all ye his saints: for the Lord preserveth the faithful, and plentifully rewardeth the proud doer. [24] Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the Lord. (Read Rom. 4:16–21 also).
 
Beloved, God glorifies Himself in us and through us not simply so that we might be saved but so that we might reflect His life on this earth. He desires that we be conformed to His likeness so that when others see us helping people, declaring the truth of His Word, and trusting in Him regardless of our challenges and despite our adversities, they will want to know more about the love of God and the power of God in us. When we are courageous to do what the Lord both commands and empowers us to do, we truly are His witnesses because we reflect His presence in the world. (C. Stanley)
Our lives have a purpose far beyond comfort, ease, or pleasure. Our lives are intended to be used by God, to fulfill His purposes on the earth.

Take courage today, no matter what you are facing. God will give you courage when you ask Him for it. He will honor your courage in remaining true to Him and His Word, and in giving to others out of your need. A wonderful blessing is in store for the courageous!

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Courage to Obey God Anyway


JOSHUA 1:7

Adversity acts in our lives as a mirror of sorts. It reveals the areas in which we need to improve, from God’s viewpoint. What a benefit there is for us to gain from divine perspective! Often, we feel we know where we are in life and what’s going on in our world. What we need is an objective view of reality...one that is not tainted by our assumptions. You see, just as a college chemistry examine can reveal our fitness for further study of the hard sciences, so life’s adversities reveal precisely where we are strong and whether we are fit for life's challenges. We need this perspective.
As with all other situations, we want to consciously look to the Lord during hard-times. When troubles come your way, also look inward to see what God is trying to show you about yourself.  Our Father is a relentless teacher and people developer. While this requires real honesty with oneself, use these self-evaluations to identify areas which need improvement and refinement. After all, none of us have arrived…right?  In this respect difficulties can be used to our advantage to further our spiritual progress in the Lord.  
I am certain you will agree we must move forward. Yes, this requires real courage and a deepening trust in the Almighty. We must keep growing in the Lord, and this demands bravery because we tend to grow more during adversities. Adversity is God’s tool of examination; accepting this requires real nerve.  Therefore, we need to understand how to use adversity for spiritual benefit. Ultimately, we want to be found obedient to the plan of God.

LESSON: 
COURAGE TO OBEY THE LORD’S WILL
Keeping God's Word Requires Courage
Joshua 1:7, Only be thou strong and very courageous, that thou mayest observe to do according to all the law, which Moses my servant commanded thee: turn not from it to the right hand or to the left, that thou mayest prosper whithersoever thou goest.
God here encourages Joshua, the new leader of Israel.  Perhaps Joshua was feeling a bit intimidated by the new responsibilities and the future in general for himself and his people. I can recall my first ministry as a missionary-pastor...though I was full of hope and excitement, I still felt deeply my need for assurance and power from on high. There were times I was overwhelmed with the challenges, expectations, and needs. Still the job was mine and it needed to be done in a fashion that honors Christ. Likewise, the plan of the Lord for the nation and his servant Joshua requires courageous faith of the highest order. Yes, like Joshua we need to summon our finest courage to obey the will of Jehovah anyway.
To follow the Lord faithfully requires courage. It always has. Fear of failure, fear of screwing up, fear of embarrassment, fear of not being able to sustain/maintain, fear of people, fear of the unknown, fear of conflict, and a host of other fears have stopped many people from even attempting to follow the Lord's plan for them. Yes, I do understand that God expects extraordinary things of us. No one can make our adrenalin flow and our hearts pump like the Lord and His plans for us. God habitually thinks big regarding his will for our lives…to say that He is ambitious about our futures is a massive understatement. We feel acutely that things could go wrong if we are not attentive enough or capable enough. However, God-sent adversity enable us to see if we are truly keeping pace with His plans.

Obviously, God was calling Joshua to faithful obedience. He wants him to stick to His will with great loyalty. There was no room for wandering here and there indiscriminately, and there was no allowance for a relaxed approach to the task ahead. God impressed his servant with the need for obedience and commitment. Such a standard generates motivation and tension in the same heart. 

DON’T ALLOW TROUBLES TO KNOCK YOU OUT OF GOD’S WILL
Adversity can knock us off stride. Often our routines or locations change in a time of trouble. A flood may force us from our home; an illness may force a change in work habits. A loss of employment can devastate a family with a series of changes…second and third order effects. The death of a love one can change the surviving family member’s lives in significant ways…. Life can be tumultuous; feeling trapped and without any other options we acquiesce to demanding and life-draining necessities…forgetting our own dreams…. The chances of being blown off track with God can suddenly escalate exponentially. What can we do?
1.  Remain Undaunted and Persistent in Obedience!
2 Tim. 1:7, For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
We need courage to remain true to God's Word and to live according to God's commandments to us. This is especially important when we confront discouragement, disappointment, or despair in the aftermath of adversity. Recognize the spirit of fear that is threatening you did not come from God; it came from the enemy-Satan. Rest in the powerful resources God has equip you with to withstand the strains you must face. God gave you “power,” “love,” and a “sound mind;” employ these helps to sustain you through adversities.
When God called Ezekiel to the ministry of the prophet to Israel during their exile in Babylon, He also challenged him to be tough-minded and determined.  He made it extremely clear that Israel will not respond favorably, but Ezekiel was to remain undaunted by their lack of response to the message.  God told Ezekiel to refuse to allow himself to be discouraged and to Preach the Words of God.  Ezekiel 3:7-11, But the house of Israel will not hearken unto thee; for they will not hearken unto me: for all the house of Israel are impudent and hardhearted. [8] Behold, I have made thy face strong against their faces, and thy forehead strong against their foreheads. [9] As an adamant harder than flint have I made thy forehead: fear them not, neither be dismayed at their looks, though they be a rebellious house. [10] Moreover he said unto me, Son of man, all my words that I shall speak unto thee receive in thine heart, and hear with thine ears. [11] And go, get thee to them of the captivity, unto the children of thy people, and speak unto them, and tell them, Thus saith the Lord God; whether they will hear, or whether they will forbear.
Beloved, this is precisely what Ezekiel did though it was accomplished through extremely hard conditions. Likewise, we need to be tough-minded and determined to see God’s will through!
     A.  Troubles Will Temp You to Give Up. Our loss or pain may lead us to think, What's the use? Why bother? Why live a godly life if this is what happens to Christians?
      B.  Keep Your Eyes on the Lord and Eternal Rewards.  Remember always that the Lord doesn't promise us worldly success and circumstantial ease in this life. He promises us His unfailing presence and His eternal rewards. Recall the words of the Psalmist in,
Psalm 27:13-14, I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. [14] Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.
When troubles come many began to reduce or neglect their spiritual activities and their zeal for service is greatly dissipated. 
1.  Don’t Allow Trouble to Knock You Out of Church & Christian Fellowship.
2.  Don’t Allow Trouble to Knock You Out of Witnessing & Soul Winning.
3.  Don’t Allow Trouble to Knock you out of Bible Reading, Praying, & Devotion.
4.  Don’t Allow Trouble to Knock you out of Growth and Maturing.
5.  Don’t Allow Trouble to Knock you out of God’s Calling and Ministry for Your Future!
Insist on continuing in the fundamental areas of obedience and commitment to the Lord. The trial will only reveal the level of your constancy in Christ!
2.  In Troubled Times, Cherish and Obey God Anyway!
A.    Time and again in the law of Moses we find the word keep.
B.     The children of Israel were commanded to keep the feasts, to keep the law and commandments, to keep the Sabbath day holy, to keep the ordinances, to keep their oaths to God, to keep themselves from evil, to keep God's judgments.
C.     To keep means to hold fast and to cherish at the same time.
When adversity strikes, this should be our mind-set: above all else, we need to hold fast to the Lord and cherish our relationship with Him. Rather than blame God or turn from God, we need to turn to God and rely on His help. Do not allow troubles to push you farther away from your heavenly Father; use them to cling to God even more tenaciously.

REALIZE THAT WE PROSPER AS WE CONTINUE IN THE LORD’S WILL REGARDLESS!
Joshua 1:7, Only be thou strong and very courageous, that thou mayest observe to do according to all the law, which Moses my servant commanded thee: turn not from it to the right hand or to the left, that thou mayest prosper whithersoever thou goest.
God prescribed blessing for His people and ensured they understood how to secure His great blessings upon themselves. There was no secret formula and Israel did not have to struggle under great rigor to figure out how to be blessed of God. God told them up front. Yes, from the very start God made it abundantly clear that obedience brought tremendous benefit, fortune, prosperity, and good to God’s people.
     1.  Consider What Moses Said About Obedience and Prosperity.
Deut. 29:9, Keep therefore the words of this covenant, and do them, that ye may prosper in all that ye do.
Moses said to the children of Israel as he led them into a covenant relationship with God to: “do them, that ye may prosper in all that ye do.” (Deut. 29:9). Keeping God’s laws in the face of adversity truly leads us toward prosperity—a better state of being...a more ideal situation. Our obligation is to follow through obediently and God is free to bless as He sees fit.
     2.  Consider What David Said About Obedience and Prosperity.
1 Chron. 22:13, Then shalt thou prosper, if thou takest heed to fulfil the statutes and judgments which the Lord charged Moses with concerning Israel: be strong, and of good courage; dread not, nor be dismayed.
That was the advice of King David to his son Solomon. He said this to Solomon as part of his final blessing to him. As New Testament believers, we enjoy so many spiritual blessings simply because we are the children of God through faith in Jesus Christ. While we are not guarantee financial or material wealth as Israel was, we are privileged to enjoy some of God’s highest and most profound blessing. Beloved, we really do not miss out on anything of eternal value because of the grace of God in Jesus Christ. Let us sing with the Psalmist of Israel in,
Psalm 27:13-14, I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. [14] Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.
Yes Beloved, life can be hard…really hard. It may seem at times that obeying God is the last thing you want to do. You may have occasions where you wonder if your obedience even matters…still follow your Lord faithfully. I urge you to refuse to allow bitter feelings, doubts, and frustrations to obscure what is truly important. Just as King David left a way of blessing for his son Solomon, our King Jesus is our generous source of blessing for all eternity. Trust and obey Him even when life makes no sense at all.
Remember troubles should be used for spiritual progress and benefit.  When adversity comes your way, it is time to look inside to see what areas may need to be strengthened to continue to grow spiritually and to stay on course with God’s specific plan for your life.  Self-examination should not be limited to areas of sinfulness or pride; it may also involve areas of weakness we need to strengthen and develop.  Fear is often a natural response to difficulties, and troubling circumstances.  But God calls us to use these challenges to grow in the areas of courage, hope, and faith.  Remember we should never waste an adversity. Learn all you can from each one. Realize that you can grow when you are willing to examine yourself closely and make the necessary changes. Beloved, have courage to obey God anyway. 

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